reminiscing

see see.cepatnya masa berlalu kan?
today, 2nd of May 2012 is my beloved kak izzah's graduation day :)

back to 3 years ago.
meh klik sini, (if nak baca laaa)
phewwww..segannnnn..hihi~

oh.kamu memang sumber inspirasiku.eceh.
congrats kak izzah comel!..

VE

Somebody That I Used To Know

try listen to this song.
kreatif sungguh orang yang cipta lirik lagu ni.
but i bet it is a true story where i think most of us experienced almost the same
:)

photo apps for iphone

• These are some of the photo apps that I am using for my iphone :)

• The top five goes to:

1. sosoCamera
2. Picframe
3. Leme Cam
4. Gifrus
5. Instagram

fall into place?

What does "fall into place" mean?

• Could it mean something like things are going according plan? Or does it mean something entirely different?

• Is it means that things are working out just as you want them to, without a lot of effort on your part?

Fall To Pieces by Avril Lavigne is always be my all-time-favourite song since the very first time I listened to it.

#nowplaying click here

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warning: This is only my random thought.. I just feel like writing here in my blog.heuheuheu. =P

Things will fall into place, if you let it.

Again.if only you let it.

I believe everything happens for a reason.
Good or bad. Big or small. Everything that happens to you...
happens for a reason.

A lot of the time we ask ourselves why certain things have to happen to us, or maybe why things have to happen to other people.

Sometimes we sit around wishing things would happen, but we don't put in enough effort.
Sometimes we do everything in our power to make things happen, but they still don't .
and it frusterates us.
Again, everything will fall into place, if you let it.


This doesn't mean we will sit around waiting for every good thing to happen to us.
We need to put in at least some effort and stay positive for good outcomes.
We need to keep hope and faith alive.
We need to believe in ourselves and believe in others.
We need to learn how to love ourselves before we can love others.
We need to serve others.
We need to be true to ourselves and learn how to trust others.
We need to have faith in God, that he is there for us every step of the way and know that he is leading us on a path that will help us grow.

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If there is anything that causes fear or doubt, pray.
When you don't feel like praying is when you need it the most... even if you think you are perfectly happy.

I bet you have felt like God gave up on you or that you are not worth his time.
Guess what? He loves you. I've had these same feelings numerous times before.
Want to know what caused these feelings and thoughts?
Selfishness. Carelessness. Sadness. Fear. 
Doubt. Anger. Frusteration. 
God never gave up on me. He was always there and is always there.
I was just too blind in the heart to see/feel it.


This is where effort needs to take place. You are in control of your thoughts.
You choose how you feel and you choose how you react to things.
With faith, anything is possible. I promise you.


These past few days,weeks, months or years have definitely been a learning experience(?)
I've felt plenty of stress, anxiety, fear, anger, frusteration, doubt, and helplessness.
I caused a lot of bad things to happen, because I didnt care enough and I lost hope.
I let one bad thought take over, then I let more bad thoughts appear. I reacted to each of them the same way. I couldnt stop one thought, because I told myself I couldnt. So I believed I couldnt. It was a neverending pit of bad thoughts I dug myself into.

Another thing I learned  is that you cannot let another person define who you are.
This was probably the hardest thing I had to learn and I am still learning from it.

You cannot make another person happy if you cannot even make yourself happy.
You can care about someone and try to help them, but if you cannot take care of yourself, it will not work out in the long run. No matter how much you want it to. 

Work on yourself everyday, but serve others as well.
Find happiness in helping others.
Find happiness in things you enjoy.
Find true friends that will care for and support you.
Ones that wont pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.

The people that matter the most dont mind, and the people that mind dont matter.

I learned that we cannot hold onto everything.
Let me put it this way...If we force things to happen and if we are making ourselves unhappy by trying to make something happen, then its probably not supposed to happen...at least for the moment or time.

I learned that we need to love who we love, and say that we do.:)

I learned that we cannot give up when things don't go the way we want it to.
We need to have hope every. single. day., even on bad days. When we fall we need to pick ourselves back up and try harder next time.

We need to move on when we are ready or when the moment is right.
Sometimes we never want to let go because we want to prove something.
When you can fully let go of something, no matter how much it hurts at first, you have already learned a lesson and you become stronger emotionally.



I've learned that time heals everything.

less than two months

*fokus*

of being a teacher

well, tadi blog-walking, terjumpak benda ni.so aku rasa macam menarik je if nak share kat sini.
memang copy paste dari sini

Aku ada baca pasal satu eksperimen dekat sekolah rendah di mana ada 2 orang cikgu diberikan dua buah kelas untuk diajar. Seorang cikgu diberitahu dapat kelas pandai dan seorang lagi dapat kelas tak berapa pandai. Tapi...cikgu2 tu tak diberitahu benda sebenarnya. CIkgu A yang dapat kelas pandai, sebenarnya diberikan kelas tak berapa pandai. Situasi yang berlawanan dicipta..cikgu B ldapat kelas tak berapa pandai..tapi sebenarnya kelas tu kelas pandai. 

Hasilnya? Budak2 tak berapa pandai makin pandai. Budak2 pandai jadi tak berapa pandai. Kenapa jadi macam tu? Hasil eksperimen kat sekolah tu membuktikan satu benda...budak2 yang diajar dengan method yang membuatkan diorang rasa diorang pandai akan jadi lagi pandai. Cikgu A tu assume kelas tu pandai jadi dia ajar dengan cara mengajar budak pandai. Cara bercakap lain..cara tunjuk kat dalam kelas lain.

Tapi bila cikgu B yang dapat kelas pandai tapi dia ingat kelas tak berapa pandai, dia dah setkan dalam kepala dia...."aku buat apa pun tak guna jugak sebab diorang ni memang dah lembap." Jadi method yang cikgu ni gunakan juga adalah method yang diapply untuk budak2 lemah membuatkan budak2 dalam kelas tu rasa diri diorang tak pandai, jatuh result periksa kelas pandai tu.

Encouragement sangat penting....Bila CIkgu B dah tertanam dalam kepala dia, kelas tu tak pandai, encouragement pun kurang diberikan kepada budak2 tu.



Orang Melayu kurang encourage anak. Sebab tu kita ramai mat rempit. Sebab tu kita ada Rempit United. Kita ada bohsia. Orang Melayu jugak lah yang paling ramai hisap dadah. Ramai orang Melayu selalu buat anak dia rasa useless.

Dari kecik lagi kita dah di discourage untuk explore, discourage untuk belajar sendiri. Berapa orang yang ajar anak dia..masuk kereta pakai tali pinggang? Tah la, ada la kot. Tapi berapa ramai yang terangkan dekat anak dia kenapa kena pakai tali pinggang tu kalau anak bertanya? Tak ramai.

Kalau ada pun selalunya jawapan dia mesti "sebab kat depan tu ada polis trafik. Cepat cepat!"

Mungkin ada yang jawab sebab kerajaan buat undang-undang kena pakai. Adakah itu jawapan yang betul? Tak. Jawapan yang betul adalah "Sebab abah dengan mak nak adik selamat dan tidak tercampak keluar kalau terjadi sesuatu yang buruk."

Kalau anda merasakan jawapan tu terlalu extreme untuk anak kau..cuba baca balik cerita cikgu A dengan cikgu B tadi.